Irony?

I saw this article last week that talks about a gay couple in Texas who want a divorce.

Now, I first must say that I respectfully disagree with gay marriage. According to the Bible, which I believe, marriage is between a man and a woman for life.

Next, it hit me as ironic that for so long same-sex couples have fought for the right to a union, yet now they want divorce? If they want divorce, didn't they think about why they got married in the first place? Marriage should be a lifetime commitment.

This example just goes to show that marriage in general in our culture has lots it value. Justin and I have been watching a series on Christian marriage by John Piper, where he really investigates about marriage is a mirror of Christ and the church. This series goes deep and really shows how marriage in our culture is so undervalued. If one does decide to get married, staying married is optional. It is not wonder that we have such a mess of live-ins and people who are afraid of commitment. When Justin and I got engaged and later married, we realized that we were making a lifetime commitment, no matter what. Instead of being scary, it is comforting to know that we have each other forever, no matter what, to work through issues and grow together. But in today's culture, commitment is just thrown out.

Let me give an example. The site thenest.com is a break off site for married couples from the hit site theknot.com. It is secular but many brides used theknot.com for planning and it is a good resource. Nevertheless, thenest.com caters to married couples and has discussion boards. One husband was bemoaning an issue about his wife, which I shall not name, because I think that it is horrifically personal and should never have been shared. Anyways, one of his options was to just get a divorce- because, as he said, he is "still young and decently good looking, and I could probably find another mate." When he first got married, he should have carefully considered the decision he was making!!!

Marriage should be a lifetime commitment between a man and woman. Oh, let God-honoring marriage be exalted to the place that it should be!

Someday

Someday, perhaps I will own a Viper. I just think I like it, that's why. Because I could, maybe one day. I really have never been terribly into cars, but I like this one. However, it's not in my pay range anytime soon- brand new ones start at $91,000. Yikes!

So, red or green?

Did I say that I can't drive stick shift? Maybe I'll have to work on that...

Stir Fry with Biscuits?

We sit down to eat. I just made chicken stir fry. Smells good, tastes good. We pray and scarf it down. Two bites in, I notice the jelly and butter on the table, and my husband looks over.

"Want a biscuit?" He had brought the leftover biscuits from yesterday's meal in.

I look at him incredulously.

"Babe, you don't eat biscuits with stir fry," I say.

"What?" Justin questions innocently.

"You just don't do that. It's too many starches. We already have rice and chow mien noodles. Plus, it's hick."

So, he didn't eat biscuits. I told him this whole situation was so funny to me that I would have to blog about it. These type of things happen frequently. For example, don't wipe off the counter with the towel that you wipe your face with. Or, don't use the same knife for the butter and jelly. (On another note, why are you using a knife for jelly?) But then he complains about me sweeping up my nail clippings instead of doing over the trash can. For that one though, he doesn't clip his nails (at least toenails) nearly as often as I do mine.

Marriage. Two different people raised different ways coming together. Amazing.

Diva Demands?

Today I post about Sarah Palin. Apparently some think she is a diva. What this would mean is that she is high-class and demands princess treatment.

I don't agree. In the following clip, a female writer from a magazine says that she cannot relate to the common folk because she makes a lot of money at speaking engagements. Take a look:



However, I don't agree. Have you seen the pictures and footage of her fishing and hunting? Really, I don't think that Paris Hilton or Britney Spears does that. I just don't agree with the aforementioned woman. When Palin speaks, she speaks to the concerns of middle class America and can relate to them because in her heart she is one. Just because she had the opportunity to run as a vice presidential candidate and that thrust her into the spotlight doesn't mean that she suddenly forgets everything that she believes in and grew up with.

Now, I know the dumpster divers found paperwork from a speaking contract that Palin wanted a nice hotel and two water bottles with bendable straws, as well as first class tickets. But I don't think this is necessarily unreasonable. She was invited there, she didn't force her way in and then say these things (unless I am mistaken on that point). I am sure that many speakers have small personal things that they would like to have when they are at a speaking engagement. Palin is not demanding a special wine or something, for crying out loud! I'm sure one could buy two water bottles and bendable straws for less than $5. I don't think that's too much to ask. Plus, maybe she doesn't like to worry about the water dripping on her. Who hasn't had water spill on them at one time or another? I think that would be an embarrassment worth avoiding. While first class tickets and a hotel are more expensive, I think it would be worth comparing what speakers for similar engagements receive.

I know this scenario has many facets, but I just wanted to be practical about it, aside from the politics. Maybe you agree and maybe not. Feel free to leave a comment.

Cheesy Potato Soup

I'm forever scrounging around my cupboard for something to cook. I never really know how it will turn out, but Justin never complains.... what a wise husband! :) I figured that I would post this in case these are items you have sitting in your cupboard too!

Here's my latest soup creation:

4-5 medium potatoes, cubed and cooked
1/2 lb sausage, cooked
1 can cream of mushroom soup (or cream of potato soup)
2 cups milk
1 inch slab of Velveeta
1/2 cup mozzarella cheese
1 cup peas, optional

Cube and begin cooking potatoes in boiling water. Meanwhile, cook sausage in skillet. While sausage and potatoes are cooking, mix cream of mushroom soup, milk, cheese, and peas in large saucepan. Simmer about 10 minutes or until cheese is melted and peas are tender. Drain sausage and potatoes and add to soup, bring to boil. Season with salt and pepper and serve!

Spring Break!

I love just relaxing without school stress and worries! Justin's parents, Stephanie and Tony, came out for a few days and we got to spend time together. We went up to Yosemite for two days, and although it was snowy, we still had a great time. Even in misty, snowy weather, one can still admire God's creation. There is still a beauty to the valley and to the redwoods even when it is cold and almost dreary.

Here's a few pictures: